Wedding Night Sex Helpful Hints....

So, your weddings soon approaching and you maybe getting nervous about that special first night as man and wife. So grab a cuppa and take a deep breath as I bring to you so new fresh ideas to make sure it will be a night to remember !!



If your wedding night will be your first time with your man, then congratulations it’s already guaranteed to be special night,  If waiting until your wedding night wasn't for you,  (definitely wasn’t for me! sorry, mum!), here’s how to make newlywed sex different from every other night.

Have some sexy background music....
OK, here is a  dose of tmi ! Me and OH never do it while music’s playing! Really it’s because the only option we’ve ever had in our bedroom is the telly !! So we created a play list for background music for our marquee and then used it for our hotel room! If you’re too busy to create a soundtrack, yourself, you could ask a bridesmaid to make one for you ! obviously make sure she thinks shes doing the daytime backing music !!

You can keep that on !!
It’s a little bit of fun to keep in that wedding mood, but it’ll make things interesting if your everyday sex tends to be prop-free. Besides, that veil only gets so much play at the wedding…
 If your feeling more daring, Bring out some sexy toys and playthings. No I'm not suggesting time for hardcore S&M, But the use of massage oils, flavoured lubes, bubble bath lotion can create more of a difference than your realise.





 Choose a new place....I know so you always have sex on a bed! Who says it has to be that way on your first married night? If you always get it on between the sheets, try a Jacuzzi bath together, or on a couch, or against a wall to heat things up.




Have a break....
So much happens on your wedding day and it can be a lot to take in, Give yourself a day’s break to catch up, there’s nothing sexy about waking up at 4:30 to catch an early flight. Leave the next day for sleeping in, relaxing, and opening your gifts, and any last minute errands.

One for the guys !
Remember to always tell your bride how beautiful she looks. Your new wife has spent literally hundreds of hours trying to look perfect on this big day. Let her know it worked!

Remember to play.....

Don’t feel any pressure to race into the bedroom and start acting like rabbits!. Take some time to catch up. You’ve just spent 12 hours or more with hundreds of people; this might be your first chance to remember the wonderful experience that today has given you.

Room service... 

You probably wouldn't of eaten much. So you are probably are low on energy, and low energy can lead to a little you know what! So make sure you have a snack. Maybe delegate a 'fill a doggy bag job' to a member of the wedding party.



Its all about the look....guys !!
Splurge out on new boxers. It will be so unexpected it will make her laugh and relieve some of the wedding night pressure. Your bride will of spent hours on choosing the perfect underwear not only to of complimented her dress but also on how you will react to seeing her in her wedding lingerie!

Set the scene...
  Trust me nothing says romance than flickering candles, rose pedals, with the background music create a play list that has sentimental value. And if you can still manage it, a nice bottle of champagne with a strawberry fizzing in the bottom.

Could you live without ?

If you want to guarantee hot wedding night sex, you could always do the unthinkable, try going without for a week, or two! and try and implement some old traditional magic, “wait until you’re married” Abstinence makes the loins grow stronger, as they say !!

Precautions.....A simple change can make it feel (almost) like you’re losing your virginity all over again. TMI again I know! But if condoms are you normal thing try opting for the pill you will obviously notice a big difference, or you may decide that you are going to now start a family and if you are starting from you wedding night then congratulations and good luck !!!

So all that's left to say is be as creative as you feel,
Enjoy your first night as Mr and Mrs and don't feel pressurised into creating a spectacular night. Such a high percentage of newlyweds don't even have sex on their wedding night that you should go with the flow of the day. Don't feel so pressured that you ruin the night by not ending on a high. Your wedding day will be full of amazing times and memories and really take time to reflect this. And if its not going to happen on this night then, remember there is always the morning !!