Michelle back for another Friday and today is a special one... It’s Burns
Night! The night of haggis, neeps (turnip) and tatties (mashed potato) ,
whiskey and bagpipes, and one of my most favourite of all. So in honour of
Rabbie Burns, let’s have a run-down of some Scottish wedding traditions!
A Sixpence in the Bride's Shoe
A sixpence coin may be placed in the bride's shoe to help bring her good luck.
Similarly, in the Scottish Borders, a sprig of heather is hidden within the Bride's
bouquet. This is still very common today in Scottish weddings.
The Wedding Scramble
As the bride steps into the car, it is a tradition for the father to throw a
handful of coins for the children to collect. This is called a scramble and is
believed to bring financial luck. This also takes place in weddings in Ayrshire
but is known there as a 'warsel'. We had this at my mum’s wedding many years
ago and the kids went crazy for it, with many great pics to be had.
The Lang Reel
The Lang Reel is a traditional dance which happens in the many of the fishing
communities in the North-East of Scotland. This dance sees the villagers and
the wedding party begin dancing from the harbour, continuing through the
village and each couple leave the reel when they pass their home. This
continues right up until the only couple left are the bride and groom, who then have the last
dance.
Blackenings
Now this is a messy one! 'Blackenings' are a ritual still performed with great
gusto - unless you are the unlucky groom-to-be! He is captured by his friends
and is stripped to the waist before bound and 'blackened' by using substances
such as feathers, treacle, soot and flour! He is then paraded through the
village whilst his friends make as much noise as possible to make the
experience as embarrassing as possible for the unlucky groom. In some parts of
Scotland, this can happen to the bride too! I have yet to see this happen, but
rest assured, I’ll keep my tradition alive at my baby brother’s upcoming
wedding!
Traditional Grand March at the Wedding
Reception
This spectacular procedure is often the first dance to take place at a wedding.
It begins with the bride and groom marching to the sound of bagpipes or a live
band. As they march, the maid of honour (or chief bridesmaid) and best man join
in, followed by both sets of parents and finally by all willing guests! This is
a great way of getting everyone up on the dance floor, and if you are worried
about being watched the first dance, this breaks up the view of you!
Feet Washing
The custom of feet-washing still happens throughout Scotland and it is hoped
that it will guarantee good fortune for the marriage. The bride sits on a stool
while an older, married woman washes and dries her feet. In Fife (where I am
from) however, only a few, heartened bridegrooms go through the traditional
procedure, which involves sitting in a tub of water while his legs are smeared
with grease, ash and soot. Yes I know, grooms take a bit of a beating on their
big day...
Creeling
In the South of Scotland, a married couple are 'creeled' as they leave the
church. Two people at either side of the door hold a fishing basket which is
tied with a ribbon across the door. The newlyweds then cut the ties and the
basket falls to the ground. It is hoped that this tradition will bring health
and prosperity to the couple.
The Bride's Cog
Wedding cogs are vessels from which ale is consumed at Orcadian (folk from
Orkney) weddings. These cogs were definitely the most essential of all the
elements that made up an old island wedding whilst still being a prominent
feature today. The exact mixture which now goes into the cog varies with every
wedding, as each family tends to have its own views on the correct recipe.
Despite the family variations, the base ingredients of this potent alcoholic
mixture are usually hot ale, gin, brandy and whisky mixed with sugar and
pepper. The cog is firstly drank by the bride before being passed around the
hall, constantly being replenished so that nobody goes dry!
A 'Second Night'
A 'second night' is normally held the night following a wedding - where people
can enjoy another night of drinking and dancing! Now that’s a tradition I like
the sound of!
And for those who love a bit of scots, a little
Robert Burns to sign off the piece:
O my Luve's like
a red, red rose,
That's newly
sprung in June:
O my Luve's like
the melodie,
That's sweetly
play'd in tune.
As fair art
thou, my bonie lass,
So deep in luve
am I;
And I will luve
thee still, my dear,
Till a' the seas
gang dry.
Till a' the seas
gang dry, my dear,
And the rocks
melt wi' the sun;
And I will luve
thee still, my dear,
While the sands
o' life shall run.
And
fare-thee-weel, my only Luve !
And
fare-thee-weel, a while!
And I will come
again, my Luve,
Tho' 'twere ten
thousand mile!